Expectation

Its easy to advice not to expect but very difficult to follow in reality. We all feel and say expectation hurts. Still, we do keep expecting from people around us. Expecting kind words when we are not fine, expecting company when alone, expecting affection when we are in need, expecting recognition for the efforts, expecting success for the hard work and so on.. Are these expectations bad?


Not really. It depends on where, how, when and from whom the expectation is. Expecting right thing from the right person at the right time in the right way is acceptable and will not hurt us. If we get hurt still, then it means one or more of these params is wrong and need to be corrected.


Expect the right thing from the right person at the right time in the right way.. Simple :)

We tend to forget all these rights when we feel we have rights on someone.. Afterall, we are humans..


I re-iterate.. Its easy to advice not to expect but very difficult to follow in reality.. Very true :(

All is Well!!!

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  1. Chuppandi10 May 2012 at 06:42

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  2. Chuppandi10 May 2012 at 06:43

    " Expect the right thing from the right person at the right time in the right way.. Simple ??? "

    I beg to differ.. it all seems so very complicated than simple..

    Too many parameters.. and u r simply sayin it needs to be corrected..

    Seems too much to decode than feynman's cipher..

    On the other hand.. however better known that expectation hurts.. we all as human beings are born with the natural expectation... like the baby's expectation that it'd be fed... like d mothers expectation the baby will grow to be a man someday...

    But yes.. there are few things like the unadultrated love of every mother to raise aomething.. feeding for life only to see it throws all out someday...

    May be its the gradient to which one should expect is what that matters... may be its a thin line that draws the difference between them...

    Yes i second too... while its easier said than done to advice one not to have too much of expectations.. one cannot simply do with that...

    Sorry for the seeminly looong comment... longer than the post itself :)

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