Adjust, Adapt and Adhere

Marriage is something which teaches us a lot in life. One should get married for sure.

யாம் பெற்ற இன்பம் பெருக இவ்வய்யகம்!!!

New relationships, new atmosphere, new life.

I have been enjoying my life with my dad like a princess. I have not done any work @ home when with my dad. Everything will be ready for me when I get up.

Now, I have to get up early and get things ready. It feels as though I am doing so much work @ home. I could find no time to relax or chat. I don't get time to login to gtalk or facebook after reaching home.

When I was single, I could speak things in raw and in a straight-forward way. Now, I have to think twice before I speak or do anything. Many things look different and odd to me. But this is life. I have to live with this.

Its not difficult but a time-taking exercise to understand people, their character, their lifestyle and adapt accordingly.

In brief, life is to adjust, adapt and adhere.

Afterall, its for my guy :)

All is well!!!

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